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            <title>looking for SMARTIES</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/724435</link>
            <description>anyone know where they sell the TUBE smarties? i am looking for the biggest tube SMARTIES but it seems most the shopping mall only sell the small tube, not the biggest one. &lt;br /&gt;Please let me know if there is any shop selling those in klang valley</description>
            <author>radical85</author>
            <category>Kopitiam Q&amp;amp;A</category>
            <pubDate>Sat, 21 Jun 2008 12:13:15 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>What happened to all the nice guys?</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/681010</link>
            <description>I found this article somewhere so here i tot i should share with all the devastated good guys out there, as well as those ungrateful girl as mentioned....&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;disclaimer- this article is original and unedited. direct copy and paste. Obviously, IT&amp;#39;S NOT ME WHO WROTE IT&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;!--SPOILER BEGIN--&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;spoilertop&quot; onClick=&quot;openClose('ef099b4a4d4e1f6ecf7c622d8a01f477')&quot; style=&quot;font-weight: bold&quot;&gt;&lt;u&gt;&amp;raquo; Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... &amp;laquo;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;spoilermain&quot; id=&quot;ef099b4a4d4e1f6ecf7c622d8a01f477&quot; style=&quot;display:none&quot;&gt;&lt;!--SPOILER END--&gt;What happened to all the nice guys?&lt;br /&gt;The answer is simple: you did.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;See, if you think back, really hard, you might vaguely remember a Platonic guy pal who always seemed to want to spend time with you. He&amp;#39;d tag along with you when you went shopping, stop by your place for a movie when you were lonely but didn&amp;#39;t feel like going out, or even sit there and hold you while you sobbed and told him about how horribly the (other) guy that you were f***ing treated you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At the time, you probably joked with your girlfriends about how he was a little puppy dog, always following you around, trying to do things to get you to pay attention to him. They probably teased you because they thought he had a crush on you. Given that his behavior was, admittedly, a little pathetic, you vehemently denied having any romantic feelings for him, and buttressed your position by claiming that you were &amp;quot;just friends.&amp;quot; Besides, he totally wasn&amp;#39;t your type. I mean, he was a little too short, or too bald, or too fat, or too poor, or didn&amp;#39;t know how to dress himself, or basically be or do any of the things that your tall, good-looking, fit, rich, stylish boyfriend at the time pulled off with such ease.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Eventually, your Platonic buddy drifted away, as your relationship with the boyfriend got more serious and spending time with this other guy was, admittedly, a little weird, if you werent dating him. More time passed, and the boyfriend eventually cheated on you, or became boring, or you realized that the things that attracted you to him weren&amp;#39;t the kinds of things that make for a good, long-term relationship.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, now, you&amp;#39;re single again, and after having tried the bar scene for several months having only encountered players and douche bags, you wonder, &amp;quot;What happened to all the nice guys?&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Well, once again, you did.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You ignored the nice guy. You used him for emotional intimacy without reciprocating, in kind, with physical intimacy. You laughed at his consideration and resented his devotion. You valued the aloof boyfriend more than the attentive &amp;quot;just-a-&amp;quot; friend. Eventually, he took the hint and moved on with his life. He probably came to realize, one day, that women aren&amp;#39;t really attracted to guys who hold doors open; or make dinners just because; or buy you a Christmas gift that you mentioned, in passing, that you really wanted five months ago; or listen when you&amp;#39;re upset; or hold you when you cry. He came to realize that, if he wanted a woman like you, he&amp;#39;d have to act more like the boyfriend that you had. He probably cleaned up his look, started making some money, and generally acted like more of an ******* than he ever wanted to be.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Fact is, now, he&amp;#39;s probably getting laid, and in a way, your ultimate rejection of him is to thank for that. And I&amp;#39;m sorry that it took the complete absence of &amp;quot;nice guys&amp;quot; in your life for you to realize that you missed them and wanted them. Most women will only have a handful of nice guys stumble into their lives, if that.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, if you&amp;#39;re looking for a nice guy, here&amp;#39;s what you do:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1.) Build a time machine.&lt;br /&gt;2.) Go back a few years and pull your head out of your ass.&lt;br /&gt;3.) Take a look at what&amp;#39;s right in front of you and grab a hold of it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I suppose the other possibility is that you STILL don&amp;#39;t really want a nice guy, but you feel the social pressure to at least appear to have matured beyond your infantile taste in men. In which case, you might be in luck, because the nice guy you claim to want has, in reality, shed his nice guy mantle and is out there looking to unleash his cynicism and resentment onto someone just like you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you were five years younger.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, please: either stop misrepresenting what you want, or own up to the fact that you&amp;#39;ve f***ed yourself over. You&amp;#39;re getting older, after all. It&amp;#39;s time to excise the bullshit and deal with reality. You didn&amp;#39;t want a nice guy then, and he certainly doesn&amp;#39;t f***ing want you, now.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sincerely,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A Recovering Nice Guy&lt;!--SPOILER DIV--&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;!--SPOILER DIV--&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This article very well answered the FAQ of relationships&lt;br /&gt;1) where is all the good guys&lt;br /&gt;2) why is there so many playboy in this world&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;credit to the writer, i have no idea who is he nor his name/nick. Whoever he is, he just made some solid point in the article. kudos&lt;/i&gt;</description>
            <author>radical85</author>
            <category>Cupid&amp;#39;s Corner</category>
            <pubDate>Thu, 24 Apr 2008 09:11:51 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>bricked my psp</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/636071</link>
            <description>i bricked my psp, i dunno what happened. im freaked out now&lt;br /&gt;I tried to replace all the file in flash0 wif my backup, just copy and replace everything in it. And now i cant even enter recovery menu. Can only see the power light on and then off. Thats a full brick i assume  &lt;!--emo&amp;:cry:--&gt;&lt;img src='http://static.lowyat.net/style_emoticons/default/cry.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='cry.gif' /&gt;&lt;!--endemo--&gt; &lt;br /&gt;damn i felt so bad killing my psp that way, is there any way i can unbrick it</description>
            <author>radical85</author>
            <category>Playstation</category>
            <pubDate>Thu, 21 Feb 2008 17:02:40 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>recommend me some game please</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/469929</link>
            <description>Next week i will have to stay in airport for around 6 hours to wait for my transit flight. so can u guys recommend me some mobile games so that i can play to kill sometime... im using w800&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Prefer puzzle games or strategy type like Ancient Empire II&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Any suggestion are very much welcomed here  &lt;!--emo&amp;:)--&gt;&lt;img src='http://static.lowyat.net/style_emoticons/default/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /&gt;&lt;!--endemo--&gt;</description>
            <author>radical85</author>
            <category>Mobile Phones and PDAs</category>
            <pubDate>Sat, 09 Jun 2007 10:13:37 +0800</pubDate>
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