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Fruit — Wed, 30 Sep 2009 00:40:44 +0800

Few months ago, I was joined an accounting course while I find out that accounting field was needed a lot of qualification to get a high paid. The 1st day I step into the classroom, I has nothing interest in the class, i always went to class a bit late coz my transportation problem between my workplace and the college...

When the course was run for a month, I was gradually find out that ... I am starting to admire a gal, she was younger than me 2 yrs... but maybe because I am still new to the class... the feelings was just an admiring and like.... so it was doesn't matter and i was continue to react a student, after the class and drove to home in the exact time...

Now, the course was run about half year... i still have the same feeling toward her, it just an admiring... Our relationship was started different from last month, she was talked with me and invite to watch movie with classmates... I felt exciting and happy but of course the feelings was hidden, so there are 4 people watched the movie... 2 guys and 2 gals included me, i knew them not really well oso but we still able to chat a lot... but the time we had on that day was short... after movie.. they all decide to back home... so that day was a short happy for me because i able to watch movie with the gal tat i admiring...

So i was try to get further and know more about her, i get her phone number by using exam matter... At last i got her phone number and we chat... but all the topics were related to exams.. The exam payment dateline are going to due on few more days... she was late and unable to make payment... i was suggested to her to get a credit card from her parents to proceed the payment by online... so she agreed but she told me that her parents credit card got problem... She asked me whether can help her make the payment first or not... and i was said yes, i could help you..because imagine the gal that i am admiring was trying to get a help from me... so we planned and had a date on last Sunday...

Last Sunday, i was with her and we had drinks at O**T**... i was brought my laptop and help her register and make payment for the exam but that day was failed because of wi-fi in the O**T*** has problem.. and she just had a short time to allow me register and pay for her exams in an hour only because she needed to go to her grandmum's house after that...

Since we failed to register, i was told her give me her id and password to allow me login her id and make payment at my home by online. At last it was successful... The next day i was handed the receipt of the payment to her during the class.. she has no response while i handed to her... After the class... she sent a sms to me and said... thanks you very much for today and say good night with a smiling emotion...

After that day... the sms from her was getting lesser... and not really reply for my sms...

I just want to know that... what should i do....? Maybe LYN forumers can help me but what i need is the advice to let me understand more what should I think to not let my mind keep thinking to the negative side...

Thanks...

Motorist

Fruit — Mon, 24 Aug 2009 23:45:01 +0800

Can I know why those motorist still like to ride a smoked motor? Did they consider the public feeling and produce the smoke to pollute the air?

[WTB] MP3 charger cable

Fruit — Fri, 07 Aug 2009 22:05:04 +0800

Item(s): MP3 charger cable

Package includes: cable only

Price: offer me

Warranty: NIL

Dealing method: COD in KL

Location: KL

Contact method/details: PM
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Item(s) conditions: Perfect

Picture: NIL

Reason for buy: Lost....

Ex Contact With You Again

Fruit — Mon, 03 Aug 2009 18:28:25 +0800

As the title shown, what is the point is she/he wanted your help if she/he already decided to cut off the relationship? I wrote my love story b4, but already ended for a year + ago. She was sms-ed me again to request help from me because she is deciding to move to outside. The problem why she move out because she already not supported by her family as what she done (She has a close-relationship till body relationship with a married guy without any guilty feel). So she was decided to move out with her colleague, and ask me to help. But then, last few days ago she was sms-ed me again to say her colleague got somebody help them.

Pizza Hut Service Charges

Fruit — Sat, 11 Jul 2009 20:41:12 +0800

There is a news related to the Pizza Hut Service charges,

I heard that Malay able to has exemption on service charge and others race should pay the service charges as usual. What is the purpose of government to do such thing? Any comment?

[WTB] AMD Mobo AM2

Fruit — Sat, 11 Jul 2009 01:20:35 +0800

Item(s): AMD Mobo AM2

Package includes:

Price: Offer me

Dealing method: COD (KL)

Location of seller: KL

Contact method/details: PM

Item(s) conditions: Functionable

[WTB] Mobo + Processor

Fruit — Sun, 05 Jul 2009 15:42:16 +0800

Item(s): Mobo with AMD Athlon ™ 64 5000 (or better, but must be AMD , not interested with intel)

Package includes: New / 2nd hand

Price: Offer me

Warranty: N/A

Dealing method: COD in KL only

Location of buyer: KL

Contact method/details: PM me

Age of item: N/A

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Item(s) conditions: Functionable

Picture: Must provided

Reason for buy: Have to upgrade my dump pc...

Notice in lieu

Fruit — Sun, 21 Jun 2009 20:32:41 +0800

Hi kopitiamers, i'm willing to ask the meaning of "notice in lieu". Can i know what the meaning of that sentence? Recently i saw my colleague's pay slip was stated a transaction which is notice in lieu. Any kind kopitiamers are willing to explain to me? Thanks..

Fruit's Love Story

Fruit — Sat, 28 Mar 2009 09:41:28 +0800

I love this gal very much, no matter what she done or betray me, I still maintain my love on her.
2007, She done a very cruel thing on me which is dating and love others while she is my GF. That period, I was having final exam in TARC, she tell me the truth and breakup..she having tis guy for 3 months already and somemore having S*X . I was felt very sad...how could she done this kind of thing to me. After a few months, she was breakup with the guy, and told me...she done the wrong decision, and want me back...I was accept her back...coz I still love her.

In our relationship, ya, maybe I'm too young, curious on S*X, I felt very unfair that she able to S*X with that guy that she known for few months, but she and me was 1 years ++ relationship. Everytime I request for it, she will rejected say she wan to wait until marry. But why she able to do with that guy?

2008, I was trying to appeal what should I have it, in 2 years relationship, she didn't payout anything and I don't mind coz love can't be measure with payouts. In 2 years, i was studying in TARC, I have my own tutorial paper , my coursework, my assignment, and my exam. In the same time, I was doing her tutorial paper, her coursework, and her assignment (tasks). She? Wait at house do housework, and wait me done her tasks. I nvr minded to do her courseworks , assignment etc.. If i rejected to do it, she will say me irresponsible to be a BF... so i nvr rejected at all....

In 2008, i was start working ....coz i unable to continue study , i find a job tat able to gain some money, i failed 6 subjects in my diploma in a/c, coz of her, i have a lot of burden of her tasks and my own tasks. After i found a job and work, i still have to resit my paper , in the same time oso have to do her tasks....There is a day that I can't stand for it...while I working...I've work burden, own study burden, her tasks burden...everything i'm not doing well in her tasks she will angry and close my phone....I feel very sad...and I can't save any cents to support her in financial problem...
So I made a cruel decided on myself...is to breakup. I try to work hard and earn more money...

After few months , around 6 months. I found that she knew another guy tat already married. I was shocked she get together with the guy married...She told me that she just loving tat guy and having dinner with that guy only...But since last nite 27/3/09, she told me tat she already having S*X with tat guy. In my mind, I feel very disappointed that why she bluffing on me.. I nvr bluff her b4 even we already breakup, I respect her and I nvr breach all my promises on her. She told every1 her frens that , I breaking up with her coz of S*X, I feel very sad too and I bear the sins...I also felt very sad, why she played my love on her, while I together with her, i request, she reject, but others guy request, she automatically accepted and do....

Few days , I was having my birthday, She keep asking me to help her on this on that...i think continue few days oso asking me to help, i nvr say no and immediately drive to her house to help her pass something to everywhere. After that few days. She was not contact with me anymore, until yesterday she call me that she and tat guy was having discussion at her house. Her family very angry and want to use knife to chop tat guy...

Now I'm trying to end up all the feel towards on her.....what i done she nvr appreciate...wat i sacrificed she nvr appreciate...Today I'll try to give up any hope from her.

TQ for those LYN forumer view my thread and try to flame me as well since I already give up.

Note: I already borrow her RM1.7k which is my savings that I just worked for a year...
Tonight I'll pass all the thing she wan me to do, let her do her ownself...I won't "soft hearted" anymore.

1st updated:

I'm trying...today made decision ...after heard the story from her yesterday, i told her yesterday that

Me: U know u trying to let me know ur story, U know I love u , u tell me such thing.. do u care about what i felt? Do u know it was very painful and cruel on me?I know what u wan me to do, I won't entangling on u anymore...
She: No, I'm not intention to cruel on u...I treating u as my Good Fren..

(sudden brainstorm in my mind...Good fren? Even birthday no greet anything? Even I help u many thing, there's no any thanks you from ur mouth? Am i owe u?)

2nd updated:

Juz called to her and told her later i finished my job on 5pm , i will try to drive to her house and pass all the thing she wan me to do to her. *in the moment, she was silent about 5 secs*

3rd Updated:

i will do so, later i finished my work, i'll chat phone and told her everything.

I plan to talk:

Me: All the thing , i given to u, i think u know how to settle ur thing as well.
Me: I hope tat u won't give excuse to ur fren tat i'm leaving coz u cant give me S*X, b4 u say such thing, pls judge urself, I request b4 i do S*X coz i respect, but yesterday i asked u why u do S*X with tat guy, u say coz of love can't be control. OK! So, hope u won't say tat S*X is an excuse between us. U r the person unable to make decision properly. N then, u very easy to find another guy tat able to help u, since u very easy to give S*X through love, soon u've the guy that help u like me, but i don't know it will last longer or not. Sorry to say that, i'm not say u cheap, if i wan to say u cheap, the 1st time u left me coz of another guy, i already say u r very cheap. But i didn't do so, coz i dun mind my beloved background, even non-virgin i oso won't care, i kept all my promises until now, i nvr told any1 tat u and me known, tis is my role. As i said I love u forever, i oso kept my promises even we breakup. But then, u're no longer appreciate it.. It was fully damaging my heart and my life, so i decide to put it down, u've ur own life, i've my own life.

4th Updated:

I request for every time i wanted , tis is how i respecting my beloved. But why i known ...most of the gal prefer without asking..... Is it a failure wat i done that i request for it b4 wanted? I just want her to feel secured with me, even i want such thing, i oso have to respect her and ask...

5th Updated:

I passed all the thing to her, and i discuss with her something...She still always standing on her ownside that what she think is correct...If she done a correct thing..I wondering why she choose to having S*X with married guy until her family fed up and ignore her everyday. She said..If i having...S*X with her...she feel worry coz she worry whether i can handle financial with her...(conclusion is money), then she said she having S*X with the married guy, she no nid worry coz that guy able support her in financial problem and financial security...

(My mind was thinking....at the moment I can't support financial as well...but doesn't mean ..future i can't! Don't forget , ur tutorial , coursework and assignment are always done by who, i've my ability.)

Last word, she said since i propose to breakup , there is no way to get back....(i think it was an excuse...) While she propose breakup with me to get together with another guy and came back to me, did I consider as much as she think? In 2 years ++ relationship, she almost propose almost 10times breakup, but always I try my best and use my sincerely to get back her.

After chat, i told her tat ...without me, u also able to survive, everytime i help u something, i was felt very uncomfortable and pain...coz sacrifice a lot...I spent my time my energy my money, those r the thing may affected to me for study.....I borrowed a lot money on u... Spend money to gain info and done ur tasks...Help u pass item to others person...those expenses..i nvr told her and she nvr say thanks to me...

I'm shortage in my money, i can't get what i wan ...even the text book for my study..i also try my hard to photostat...every month my expenses very tide...every month have to budgeted some amount to borrow to u...but at last what i get? U're not appreciating me.....Do u care about my pain.....? Don't u pls keep standing on ur side.....think about my angle...and my backscene...

6th Updated:

My world i've not more frens that able to share, and be trusted. She're the 1 that able to let me share all my feel and get my trust. But the conversation yesterday that she said cheating somebody isn't easy. (MY mind was thinking...cheating somebody is cheating, there is not easy and not easy factor. I trust u, no matter u r my GF or not, I trust u coz I love u, But I'm very disappointed that u cheating me and say nthing happened with that guy, u suddenly say u had been S*X with the guy, so, u mean i'm very easily to get through the way u cheating me?) This is the factor that i was going to mad her ,and not going to help her anything, i won't contribute my heart to somebody that cheating me and give a lot excuses that proving that she is right.

Today I'm good, for those who are worrying about me, I belief that I won't make u all disappointed and I'll get up from this failure love.

7th Update:

11.30am 30/03/09, She sudden miss call me while i'm working right now, n then i received a SMS from her that she ask me to help her do RESUME to apply some job...actually i want to help.....but I've to promise myself to get over her...unintentionally i was trying to....type a reply SMS which is content " Sorry...I'm busy"...I felt pain....to reply with such message to her....

8th Update:

Juz now reached home from college and bring the last item that i left something at my car....I wait at her house for 30minutes d, her phone still unable to call in. I so angry and send a sms to her said that "PLEASE RESPECT THAT SOMEBODY HELP U DO SOMETHING, I ALREADY WAIT AU UR HOUSE FOR 30MINUTES D". Then she came out d, I put the "key" on the flower pot and let her take then drive car go. And then, i sent a sms which content.

1st Message (MY SMS)
"I hope tat u wan find somebody to help u, pls find the correct person. Everytime i help u do something, i won't be respected, say what good fren.? Help u done something, if lucky u'll sudden say thanks you. But in 10 times i help u , there is 1 time u say thank you, another 9 times u "slap slap ur butt , and raise up ur nose and go away". Wat do u think am i? Used my love towards on u? Previously , u said help u do something is ur husband's responsibility, u should find "HIM" no find me. He's the 1 that u trusted and dependable. U being cheated for me a few times mean that i'm not being trusted by u anymore."

2nd Message (MY SMS)
When u gonna returned my RM1,750?

3rd Message (MY SMS)

I'm totally lost the trust and reliability to u, if u able to return the money to me as fast as possible is good, those money are my "Blood Sweat Money"...

Then she called me and say

Don't worry, I'll returned ur money by installment. After i found a job and get salary, i will return to u RM200 per month. Please give me ur account number that i'll bank in the money to u coz i dun wan see ur face anymore. Now i realized u r such people.. The money i will return to u, dun worry *cut the phone*.

4th Message (MY SMS)

I'm not change anyway, i just dun wan owe and being owe by somebody that keep cheating on me. Since i heard ur story, honestly i didn't look down u, I'm care what r u cheating on me. U r the person i most trustable and reliable. Everytime i keep endure and endure,and u keep cheating n cheating. Say what cannot go back late coz ur tis year being predicted by monk that can't be late back home, cannot tis cannot that while we together, actually in the nite , u going to play with "HIM", and i'm the person do ur job ur assignment on the back of u.

9th Update:

Last 2 days, i failed to do medical checkup bcoz i was short in cash that i was borrowed all my money to her included my saving as well... I felt very sad and anger that why i borrow her my money until i suffering the pain too... So at the moment of anger, i was sent a SMS to her to tell her tat " IF U GOT MONEY , CAN U PLS RETURNED TO ME RM200 1ST BCOZ NOW I'M NEED THE MONEY TO PAY MEDICAL FEES 1ST"

Until yesterday, she was sent a SMS to me

1st SMS : I'm not dun wan returned those money to you, u such person i won't owe money from u! I've try to returned u abit money b4, but u say NO NID. (tat moment i was very trust her). Now I'm not find any job , face accident and get sick of DENGGI, job oso not yet found how to return to u. Dun worry! I GOT SALARY I SURE RETURNED TO YOU 1ST! I HATE U! You still very childish , i dun wan talk to u anymore. I got money i'm sure return to u. Finished Words! NO SEE U, BYE!

10th Update:

Today while i finished class, i drive to her house and have a round ....dunno y... it was uncontrollable... mayb the problem came when i having lunch. I had my lunch at KLCC, after lunch, all my female colleauges were went to shopping left me a guy was staying at outside wait them... i felt very bored at that time... I was having a brainstorm...and i was thinking about her... because....KLCC was the place that we produce our love... I'm trying but i know it was no U-turn anymore, i juz hoping she will having her new life with happiness...

11th Update:

Last week, my story was well-known by other fren....she is my ex best fren, but the relationship was going worse after secondary. Actually all of my friends, it's about 90% were lost contact after they heard our story (me n gf), so, i was no longer contact with them, but i met all of them once while it was my friend's b'day because i was invited. I saw their face seem like i was done a lot of sins towards them..so in the same time i was leave earlier to prevent arguement. I'm the person who dun like to argue and make trouble, so i avoid to join such party. That's why my life going to worse and worse till my daily activities become working, study, and surfing net at home, there are no funs, no party, no clubbing, no longer yamcha, less shopping and so on. Back to the story,my friend that know my story recently, she forgive me and no blame me anymore, in the same time, she also advice me to not be stubborn and love her. She did ask me a question, why do u still able to get together with her for few years? I replied, I was blinded by love... So... the main point is..her b'day coming soon (my ex) , few more days later is her chinese calender's b'day. I was...planned to grate her b'day... and treat her ate a simple dinner. The question is ....is it worth to do so....? Why i always hard to let it go.....? Stubborn? No, i'm not, i was trying...but it was failed....

12th Update:

At last, i never spent a single minute to celebrate her birthday. I sent a single message with 2 pages to wish her has a wonderful birthday.. She sent a message to me yesterday, the message said... tomorrow i will bank in RM 100 to you...

Avoid & Forget Everything

Fruit — Sat, 07 Mar 2009 13:35:48 +0800

Since..study unable to let me forgot the ppl that I LOVE...Deciding after some lesson, i will try to leave KL, to forget all the happiness and sadness that happened in KL. Is it the best solution?

[WTAsk] Korea Loess a Beauty

Fruit — Sun, 22 Feb 2009 15:32:57 +0800

Where can buy Korea Loess a Beauty Mask? TQ notworthy.gif Hopefully able get answer from LYN...

[WTAsk] Korea Loess a Beauty

Fruit — Sun, 22 Feb 2009 15:12:26 +0800

Where can buy Korea Loess a Beauty Mask? TQ Hopefully able get answer from LYN...

Hotmail Problem

Fruit — Sat, 14 Feb 2009 13:14:27 +0800

My hotmail was using .co.uk ..why my hotmail unable to attach any file? When i using others account, i can attach the file into the mail, and about the "TO" box, i can't click it. Can i know what the problem on it? Try a few times also same result, if using others mail, it was running properly.

Hotmail Problem

Fruit — Sat, 14 Feb 2009 12:47:51 +0800

A Girl Love Some1 b4 Will Forgot the Previous 1?

Fruit — Fri, 13 Feb 2009 12:54:09 +0800

1)A guy was loving a gal, since he studying secondary until he reached 21
2)he decide to leave the gal even though he very love her but he was no money to get together with her. Many conflict between couple while not enough money, sometimes as a man, saw own GF suffering, he felt sad..
3)he decide to look for more money to get over her.
4)after few months...he found that the gal was get together with other guy d...but breakup after few weeks.
5)now the guy was trying to get back her...and the gal was quite close with tis guy (slept on his shoulder while watching movie at cinema 1 time... let the guy hold her hand shopping but after few days she was telling tis guy , he and she can't together..after few days .tis gal still very close with tis guy, everytime find tis guy shopping...yamcha 1 on 1 only.....
Question:
but the guy was wondering is it got possibility to get over with this gal?

Website Creation

Fruit — Mon, 09 Feb 2009 08:33:05 +0800

I'm willing to create a company website. How to apply for it?

How much the registration fees?
The total fees after created?
What could the procedures to create for it?
Where should I registered and make payment?

Hope LYN forumer able to help me . TQ

Website Creation

Fruit — Mon, 09 Feb 2009 01:54:16 +0800

What the procedures to conduct a new website that is company purposes?

How much for the registration fees?
Total fees after created?
Procedures and place to register?

Any LYN forumer able to provide such information to me? TQ

[WTAsk] Green Excrement (shit)

Fruit — Tue, 03 Feb 2009 13:35:13 +0800

Can i know what the matter cause the excrement was in green color? Any LYN member able to help the facts?

[WTAsk] Green Excrement (shit)

Fruit — Tue, 03 Feb 2009 13:34:33 +0800

Can i know what the matter cause the excrement was in green color? Any LYN member able to help the facts?

What should I DO *updated 3/2

Fruit — Mon, 02 Feb 2009 09:18:31 +0800

I'm breakup with my ex for 9 months d....but in that period, i was very miss her...even though i'm the person decide for it...coz of financial problem... last 3 months we contact back and i felt very happy and keep contact and come out together. Everytime she watch movie with me, while she get nervous on movie , she will hold my hand tightly... and sometimes was slept on my shoulder while watching movie in cinema... i was felt very happy tat she could done this on me...but last week...till now ...she was cool on me...coz since last week..she was told me tat ..we 2 are impossible to get together again...i just dun wan waste ur time and i was treat u as my fren only...i told her tat...u may reject currently but..i was not giving up to get back that life...even u keep reject...i will not giving up to love u...and she now keep cool on me (no call, no sms), i felt...very sad till now...already a week... for further...feeling i'll try to elaborate on next topic.... tq..