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i got her number, now what?,

nshen-ho — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 02:37:08 +0800

I met this girl at a dinner few months ago and i am very interested in her.

I just got her number from a friend. But i don't know to text her or not, she'll think i'm a stalker or what lol.

I don't wanna fack up and loses all the chance..

What should i do? pls help.

What age do you consider 'old' for a man...,

verajelly — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 00:44:28 +0800

...to still be unmarried/single? 35? Is it odd for a 35 year old man to still be single?

Argue, Girl hurt herself,

anti-informatic — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 23:36:07 +0800

First of all, "I Feel Suicidal" not because im in the case, but i just lost my soul after talking to this gal i know

Im a busy-buddy now for interfere at their relationship problem
Things go like this, she say she cut her hand with pen knife,
because after argue with BF. Yet she still able to chat happily like she like this and like the cutting mark on her hand
So i approach that guy, try to talk to him bout it but he ask me leave him alone
And he also know this girl hurted herself

Bla....sorry my mind not clear tonight......i get a good night slp then only talk about it again.

Wish to end my single life ASAP...,

CompuExpert — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 22:56:47 +0800

Hi! all lyn members here, I'm 25 years old this year and had been fail in relationships 2 times in my life because my 1st relationship is my ex was very materialistic person, and 2nd relationship is because of i not being honest with my ex and i have make very big mistake. Since that incidents i never dare to begin another new relationships and i still couldn't find the person which make me have feeling with her, i had ever think don't want to involve in love relationships anymore, but is impossible for me, As we know we are human being we also need lwarmest love too, however i stay with my parents and also have my own business to do, but sometimes i still feel very lonely even no one could share with me everything. I wish to end my single life ASAP, but for me it seems very diffucult to found the girls who very good and love you.

i have perasaan for a /k/tard,

maymay — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 13:15:37 +0800

/k/ how should i confess?

What he must do ?,

wangpr — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 11:39:28 +0800

I have a fren who in dilemma. He has working for 6 years and save RM30k just enuf to pay downpayment for a house.
Suddenly his GF's mum is urgent need $$$ to do operation that cost RM25k-RM30k.

Now, his mind is hard to make decision....... If he took the money to help his GF mum, then he have to start work again n resave again for another 6 years...... with one consequences that gal in future might be his wife might be NOT...........

If he doesnt help, then it will leave a bad image inside her heart..........

If that time, he ask her to marry her only he help, that look like blackmail her .........

So, what u all think the best way he can solve this dilemma ?

is both of them JUST a friend?, ...

bunnylicious — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 11:33:43 +0800

i'm so blur and confuse right now..

ok you see i'm really close to 2 guys let's just call them, guy 1 and guy 2, and i treat them like brothers..

guy 1 is a guy which i'm really close to him.. we study together and are always seen around together.. our classmates start to ask whether are we together, couple or official.. basically, we're hot topic and are constantly discussed by other friends..
last time guy 1 told me that i was flirty and should stop, and i've ask him before, what will happen if i confess to you? his reply was 'o ok' so i was quite heartbroken.. and just treat him like an elder brother, nothing more i think.

i myself is also not sure whether i fall in love with guy 1 a not.. it's uncertain to me..

guy 2 on the other hand is my bestfriend's ex, we hung out alot as he's my classmate and i was with him when he broke up with my best friend.. and now he's really close to me. and i also treat him like a brother. but my other friends tells me that guy 2 is after me, i'm his new target. i do not believe it but it may be true? i'm not to sure about it too.. but i've ask him before, i asked are you after me and he said no. so be it.

but guy 1 is the one that told me that guy 2 is after me, that scared me a little and he told me that no guy can treat a girl as their sister, cause he say if treat like sister means got some meaning to it. and he knows i treat him like a brother. he calls me his comfortable people.. guy 1 also told me that he is changing and he wants me to change with him..
i told guy 1 that we are hot topic and he's responds was if anyone ask you whether you like me, just say yes.
and in class my teacher asked me why my results drop and guy 1 answered it's because of a love triangle.

guy 1 is surrounded by many girls and he changes he's attitude? like daily.. sometimes is this other days is that.. but i doubt he'll fall for a girl like me.. because, most of the time is i go and find him and not the other way around.. so i guess.. he's just not into me?

guy 2 on the other hand keep on asking me whether do i like guy 1 and keep on asking me alot of other stuff like who do you msg when you got something to share, and whose name you hope to see when you receive a msg. and today he asked me, so are you really really sure you don't like guy 1 and i said i'm not too sure but he was a bit emo after that, not so happy like usual.. guy 2 also came to cheer me up when i was sad and that made me touched..

so can anyone tell me what's happening? i'm really blur and cannot understand what's happening right now..
am i thinking too much?

thanks so much~ ^0^

Photo shoot, Need advise

chrisling — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 09:18:52 +0800

Hi,

I need to help my friend to do research about which photography studio she should go for photo shooting? Which is the best place you girls/guys had experienced out there? Please help me...

Thank you in advance. Appreciate it.

LYN Single's Club V216, weird place to drop by....lolx

cynthiacassandra — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 07:44:13 +0800

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Being single ask the men

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Previous Single's Club and Creator link:

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Helps to snare my ideal partner !,

lovelyduckling — Mon, 23 Nov 2009 23:51:27 +0800

FINALLY !!! I get to hang out with this guy for next two weeks. He is a post graduate student who speaks well, is sociable and not annoying (So MY TYPE!!!!). So far, he is the best candidate I have come across (what to do... social netwook is pretty limited. Luckily I like his body mwhahahahaha )

He doesn't seem to pay any particular attention to me though. After all, he has some really pretty female friends who perhaps carry more entertaining conversations than I do......So propose ideas to help me scheme to charm him.

No cliches such as "just be yourself" please.

~sad: my ex-gf come and show off she getting marri, ....y so long now only come back?

lanusb — Mon, 23 Nov 2009 20:52:56 +0800

today suddenly got msn message from someone (not in list) I just ask and then found it is my 8 years ago ex-gf...say long time no see, etc etc.......then I was stunned for a while but dun care la...ex wat......who ask her dump me last time and go overseas and then no contact for so long
anyway come to talk until "how are you" question, then say she getting married and just out of the blue say u not married yet meh? so old already worr....ps. she is 2 years younger though.............
then she ask add me to facebook.....then about an hour ago she change her profile pic and i duno y got tag me there? and its her pre-wedding picture.....worst is tag me to the pasu bunga

now i duno who should i tell this story to...i can't tell to my gf else she angry..but u know la she is still my ex..definitelygot some strange weird feeling....i hope those bro/sis's who got dumped before might understand how i feel...

Wedding Banquet Venues, Need help and ideas

jassielim — Mon, 23 Nov 2009 20:29:09 +0800

Hi,
Anyone can help to give me idea which restaurant is good in penang? i need for wedding dinner next year. Thanks. Budget is less than rm500

This girl....., Is she interested in me ????

~ d34th 4ng3L ~ — Mon, 23 Nov 2009 03:11:17 +0800

Here's my case......

Well im clubbing at that time and there r 2 girl's that my fren(boy) bring...... so i talk to 1 of them n tried get her phone number.
Didn't think that she would give me her number( hehe, 1st time try to get a girl number ).

After that follow her n her fren around the pub ( dancing together ) v 1 of my fren, then she want to go to another pub at the
opposite, so just follow her there.......the funny thing is when she out of the toilet she n her fren just run out n go back to the
1st pub ...... n feels like she want me to catch her up

So i n my fren just catch them up loh( a bit drunk at that time )

When i catch her up, she's at the middle there dancing v her fren n after that saw a guy try to get her phone number........
well she did gave him ( ,that doesn't surprise me )

after dancing v her for few minutes , then she just go out of the club ( at that time abt, 4am )

Time to go back n after that the girl sms me asking me " Not yet go back ah ?? still got go anywhere mah ?? "( didn't think that she would sms me )
So i just reply her .

The case, is she interested in me ?? n should i go for it ??

Guys n girls .......please don fire me k
Just need opinion from all of u......thanx

P/s : Mod, if u feel that this is a nonsense topic, just closed it if u want to...... n i will understand.

how long does it take?,

wassap — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 23:38:03 +0800

hopefully this is not spam.

i am wondering. how long does it take for you to get over your ex? lets say both of you together for just a few months. then he says he want a break up. cause both of you are always quarelling.

ROSES, some random questions

interestingsht — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 19:19:20 +0800

- 1 Rose Love at the first sight; you are the one
- 2 Roses Mutual love between both, deeply in love with one another
- 3 Roses I love you
- 6 Roses I wanna be yours
- 7 Roses I'm infatuated with you
- 9 Roses An Eternal love, together as long as we live
- 10 Roses You are perfect
- 11 Roses You are my treasured one; the one I love most in my life
- 12 Roses Be my steady
- 13 Roses Secret Admirer
- 15 Roses I am truly sorry, please forgive me
- 20 Roses Believe me, I am sincere towards you
- 21 Roses I am devoted to you
- 24 Roses Can't stop thinking about you, 24 hours everyday
- 33 Roses Saying "I love you" with great affection
- 36 Roses I will remember our romantic moments
- 40 Roses My love for you is genuine
- 50 Roses Regretless love, this is
- 99 Roses I will love you for as long as I live
- 100 Roses Harmoniously together in a century; remaining devoted as couple till ripe-old age
- 101 Roses You are my one and only love
- 108 Roses Please marry me!
- 365 Roses Can't stop thinking about you, each and everyday
- 999 Roses Everlasting and Eternal love

Whats the meaning of be my steady? lol

Romantic Restaurant in Penang/Butterworth,

ganesher85 — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 10:36:39 +0800

Hi all, maybe this topic is common to most of u.....so i need some ideas from the lowyat forumers

I am going to Penang this weekend. I would like to impress my gf with a romantic lunch. I am budgeting around rm200 for this. I am going to propose to her officially. I would really appreciate the ideas given.

Ways to attract a guy, Now don't complain all threads r 4 guys

euphoria88 — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 02:01:14 +0800

Attracting a guy is the easier than attracting a girl. Here's why.

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You see, God is fair. God gave guys either physical power, height, brains, talents or looks. Or any 3. Never all. As for girls, its still the same, assets, looks, brains, height or talents. You better pray for talents, brains and physical looks. Assests you can grow them and guys don't care about height (generally).

Ok back to topic. Ways and rules to attract a guy:

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Guys in fact are simple yet complicated. They're easy to talk to yet hard. They are creatures for us girls to explore and experiment. The ugly truth: Girls get more pleasure than guys when it comes to relationship. The sex and all is great and he thinks he get all the pleasure, well, let them keep thinking that way because we girls know whats the real truth

Social circle is also important. Expand it then you've got more choices, more free dinners, more free lift home and more flirting. Flirting is healthy

There are somethings I wanna make clear of:
1. DO NOT mislead a guys' feelings by using above.
2. DO NOT use the above method to get a personal purse.
3. DO NOT blame me or this thread if you fail. Its obviously because of your own mistakes.

I can do better than this but its 2am + whole day out attending meetings and function.

do you guys agree with this...,

solonblight9210 — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 00:48:54 +0800

ways to approach girl:

1) When you meet a girl the first time, tease her about
something. Here's an example, say: "Sooo tell me ...
what's up with girls and the color pink? ... Oh I know,
chocolate-discounts at the mall, ha ... you are such a girl"
or "So ... when are we getting married?" or "Cool, you
gonna buy me a drink then?".

If you tease a woman, it shows that you're NOT INTIMIDATED
by her, that you have a fun sense of humor. And they can't
help but to LOVE it.

KEY: Make sure you say something FUNNY. If you
don't know how to be funny, get a book on it. The test:
If she's not laughing, then it wasn't funny!

2) Be COOL. Look, don't act like you are on your first date.
Women certainly don't want to be around a chump who acts like
he's on a date with Jessica Simpson. Treat her like your bratty
little sister and play with her.

You see, attractive women are approached and hit on
all the time so you HAVE to be different here. This "just
a little too confident" attitude is very attractive to women...
ESPECIALLY when it's combined with humor.

3) DON'T answer her a direct answer. Play around a bit.
If she asks you questions such as "What do you do" or "Tell me
something about yourself", then don't answer with something
like "Oh yeah ... I'm a systems analyst" or "I'm the department
manager of such and such".

This just ISN'T interesting to women!

Answer with funny answers, and don't give her what she wants.
For instance, say "Yeah, I work in this escort agency where I
have to meet these rich women and give them a lift home in their
own car because they had too much to drink, Sexy job eh?."

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future wife from other state, can gaduh eh?

azerroes — Sat, 21 Nov 2009 20:00:33 +0800

Hye all, frankly speaking... i dunno how to put it in words... but i will try my best to clarify it

i somewhat intrested with a girl from kelantan ... maybe the possibilities of i ll be marrying her is very very very high!

come to the question, especially for those malays and muslim ... balik kampung during hari raya will be quite troblesome or not? i mean that issit a really big issue when it came to balik kampung? ... since im from selangor

actually the main question is long distance origin and balik kampung issue, thats all ... everyone can share , thanks

How to you start a conversation?,

FeeD — Sat, 21 Nov 2009 19:35:40 +0800

how to start a conversation everytime you call the girl you like...

something that would make her happy and supprise???